I really need some honest advice here?

Eight months ago I met a very special lady on the net. She is married by the way, but the marriage is sterile with no intimacy for a year or more. What started out as a friendship based on common interests, over time developed into something a whole lot more. Nine weeks ago I flew from Australia to England to meet her and we fell in love.Because we are people with moral values we kept it platonic but we of course would like to take it to a new level. Her husband is a very controlling man ( he is a muslim ) who has subjected her to 14 years of mental and physical abuse.Our dilemma is does she stay with this man and get more of the same or does she leave him and come to me where I can love her and treat her with the respect that she deserves.We are both very much in love